Dag 533 – Fear of not being understood

Mooie-papegaaien-achtergronden-hd-papegaaien-wallpapers-13I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear not being understood which brings me to the experience of needing to ‘explain myself’ to make myself clear.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to share from the point of wanting to be understood and so, expecting something from another instead of unconditionally sharing myself within the things that I am already able to.

See more at: Dag 530 – Sharing a hidden pattern

When and as I see myself participating in fear to not be understood before I want to share something, I stop and breathe.

I realize that this is simply a thought, based on a memory of not being understood in the past which I took personally.

I realize that ‘not been understood’ does not say anything about who I am, it may only point out that 1. I could practise on how to bring into words what I see that I could share and 2. that another might not be ready or even willing to understand what I share, which is fine.

I commit myself to stop participating in the fear as a thought that I am not being understood when I want to share something.

I commit myself to practise bringing into words what I see that I am ready to share.

I commit myself to forgive myself my reactions on another person who is not ready or willing to understand what I share.

I commit myself stop taking the reactions of another as not understanding me personally and see if I can improve something within myself in my way of sharing.

When and as I see myself going into an expectation of wanting to be understood when I share something, I stop and breathe.

I realize that within going in expectation I expect another being to be like me, to stand in my shoes, instead of me standing in the shoes of the other being.

I commit myself to stop expecting another being to be like me and to stand in my shoes in understanding what I share.

I commit myself to stand in the the shoes of another being with who I share something and see what it is that I could share and how I best could share this.

I commit myself to share myself unconditionally, when and as I am stable and within the points that I have walked for myself and so that I am clear and stable in.

Dag 232 – Stop participating in a thought as a memory

Mooie-papegaaien-achtergronden-hd-papegaaien-wallpapers-16How You See Colours – The Metaphysical Secrets of Imagination – Part 47

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