This blog is related to record 2. Loosing stability
The self-forgiveness are partly written as if it is happening in current time, however it are self-forgiveness on a pattern that I am reflecting back on and now taking responsibility for.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to loose my stability in behalf of fertility as how I am interpreting and living this and within this, loose myself so to speak within thoughts and emotions and compromise myself in activities as a way of trying to ‘live’ the thoughts and ‘test it out’ and so trying to come into calmness again.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel like I miss out on something if I do not follow my mind and thoughts within.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think and believe that I should follow my thoughts and live it out so that I will not have missed anything, instead of seeing, realising and understanding that I miss myself within blindly believing and following thoughts and ideas that come up within me.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not know another way of keeping myself stable than through living it out and through in physicakl reality.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to live in comparison with others who are creating a family and within this comparison, loosing myself.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to feel/have felt so lost and unhappy within this comparison where I could not live up towards that what I compared myself with.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to try to live up towards an idea of my myself in/as my own mind an if I will not be able to ‘reach’ this, feeling like I fail.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to loose myself as life completely within an attempt of reaching a goal of giving life to another as in giving birth to a child.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think and believe that giving live/birth to child, will make me stand up within and as myself, instead of standing up within myself and taking responsibility for my own thoughts, feelings and emotions in every situation that I am in.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to within this, actually ‘wait’ with standing up until a situation will force me to do so as I expect in a situation as giving birth to a child.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become blanko and tired while writing these self-forgiveness and start thinking ‘on the background’ that it is unclear and of no use.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to walk the same as the group of friends is doing because they partly walk what I want and at the same time, not want this completely and so, creating a polarity within this and around it.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be comfortable with myself and find some ‘sense’ within my own life and living when I am alone and within nature and as soon as I start interact with ‘friends’ who are within a relationship and getting children, start comparing myself and loosing who I am within and coming home unhappy and dead-tired.
When and as I see myself participating in comparison while being in interaction with others, I stop and breathe. I realize that it does not make sense to compare myself to another and that I do not see a whole picture of what another is actually going through as every one has challenges to walk that are ‘of weight’ for each one. I commit myself to see the trigger-point as a thought within myself that activated the comparison and to stop and forgive this thought/judgement/fear to take of it’s grip of myself. I commit myself to focus on that what I walk within my life and to stop focussing on that what I not walk.
When and as I feel like I miss out on something, I stop and breathe. I realize that within my mind, I think and believe that I should have something or, I realize that I am actually able to do something or stand up for something that I am not yet doing or haven’t done and so, I commit myself to investigate the source of the experience of missing out on something, to forgive ideas and experiences and to look for that what I would like to live and bring into expression.
When and as see myself trying to live up on something that I think I should be able to, I stop and breathe. I realize that here again, I think and believe that I should be able to do something or, that I am not yet doing something (or did not have done something) that I am actually able and willing to bring into expression and so, I commit myself to bring myself into expression within small steps, slowly and day by day without forcing myself with thoughts and ideas about myself in what I should be able to in/as my own mind but more from a starting-point of practical investication of the possibilities within my physical reality and within the physical abilities of myself and so, work with what is here.
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