Dag 705 – The body-being-mind relationship – Who am I ?

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The question ‘who am I’ was being discussed within group-chats that I participate in and at first, this was a bit vague for me. Meaning, I could not really define who I am and this was actually an important basic-point all the time, like, I could rationally understand ‘who I am’ and perfectly give words to it that I have learned and seen as real and common sense over the last few years. However, this does not mean that I as ‘me’, am really understanding and realizing myself as who I am.

Last week I was at my weekly sport-lesson. Standing half in front of a mirrow, doing the excersises within a group on music, I like this kind of work-out. What I noticed were the self-judgements that were automatically coming up within myself. Small and fast thoughts about how I look – positive as well as negative – and within this, as soon as they come up, I feel and notice how I finally diminish myself and actually define myself within and as these judgements. So here, I define myself as ‘who I am’ within and as self-judgement, so in and as the mind. Which is not a very supportive way to exist.

Moving on with the lesson, a realization came up within and as myself: I know and am sure what I stand for, I stand for and as principled living. I have committed myself to this, I am walking this now for several years, I am sure that this is what I want, what I will do and what I stand for and as and I am sure that I will forgive and correct myself when and as I am not living accordingly to the principles that are considering myself as life as a whole.

I can be and am sure of this, because I have extensively studied and applied this, I have walked and am continues walking this as a process that is needed to move myself from consciousness to awareness (where my awareness is present in and as myself within principled living, considering life as a whole). And here, I realized that this will be my platform of ‘who I am’, it’s my integrity and/as the certainty within and as myself, of my commitment and effort to live within principles that are best for myself (as life) and within this, for and as life as a whole and change myself into this on all the levels that I have separated myself in, as separation from this awareness within and as myself.

While realizing this, the small ‘rembling’ self-judgements disappeared/went silent and I have moved beyond this point within myself. Every time that an uncertainty comes up within myself, I remember myself as who I am within principles living. When I see within myself that self-judgements from another dimension keep on going, I know that these are other patterns that I need to look at, to forgive and correct within myself. However these small, rambling, diminishing self-judgements that are going on and on in my and every one’s mind – you know, the ones where everything is judged within self, a look on my face, a posture, actually my physical appearance and how I express myself in every small detail and then comparing myself to another, as being so self-conscious of every movement within and as my mind without doing anything about it – these are not needed, these do not make any sense at all and are of no support for myself, in and as life.

Within this moment during the sport, my calves became warmer and the circulation towards the calves, became better. A slight pain that did come back within the top of my left calve the few days before, it went away. One step forward towards earthing myself, one step deeper within my own physical body and finding a reference-point for myself that I can use, that I can live as, when and as I see that I tend to go into diminishing myself with regards to my physical presence and actually, it is a reference-point for myself when and as I tend to go into diminishing myself with regards to any other aspect. Altough here there may be more self-reflection needed, this who I am within principled living is still a reference-point for myself, in any and every moment.

More points to come, as I do feel more area’s that are cold within my physical that I will move myself towards, when and as I realize myself more and more in who I really am within the potential that I can live by and as.

Would you like to learn more about what principled living entails and how we can all start with this, within and as ourselves? There are lot’s of articles, video’s and lessons to find, free on line. To learn and understand where we come from (see ‘articles’ and ‘video’s’) and with practical solutions of how to move forward (see ‘lessons’ and ‘free on line’). For some basic understanding with regards to the terms ‘consciousness and awareness’, see the 3 links in the written text here above.

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The body-being-mind relationship – Timeline

Disclaimer:

This blog does in no way contain a medical advise. With unclarity about a condition – physically or mentally – always contact a practioner/specialist/doctor in the related area to get the support you need and from here, see how you can additionally walk your own process to get to know and support yourself in relation to your own body and mind.

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Dag 638 – Waar identificeer jij je mee?

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In en als de menselijke geest zijn we er ‘meester’ in om onszelf te identificeren met allerlei gedachten, aannames en geloven. Hierin kunnen we in vele gevallen denken dat dit onschuldig is, echter is het wel zo onschuldig? Of is het zo dat het identificeren met iets of iemand buiten onszelf, leidt tot conflict, van binnen en van buiten, tot aan oorlog toe?

Laten we een overduidelijk voorbeeld nemen: voetbal.

We hebben Ajax en we hebben Feyenoord. Twee partijen die hun thuisbasis hebben in verschillende grote steden. Als er een wedstrijd is tussen deze twee ploegen wordt de ME groots ingezet om te voorkomen dat conflicten uit de hand lopen tot in gevechten. Oorlog dus eigenlijk. Echter, we hebben het hier over een voetbalwedstrijd. Een sport waarbij je op een fysieke, plezierige manier je krachten en inventiviteit zou kunnen meten met elkaar in een wedstrijd die erop gericht is om de fysieke prestaties zo optimaal mogelijk in te zetten in samenwerking met elkaar. Zou je zeggen.

Als we de voetbalcultuur bekijken zou je niet zeggen dat dit een bedoeling van sport zou kunnen zijn. Als we de voetbalcultuur bekijken, zien we haat, rivaliteit, conflict, oorlog en een heleboel geld wat hierin gestoken wordt met salarissen voor de spelers waar hele families van zouden kunnen eten. En wij als toeschouwers – of we nu actief toeschouwen of passief en/of niet geïnteresseerd zijn – wij staan dit toe aangezien we geleerd hebben dat dit een onderdeel is van de maatschappij waarin we leven.

Wat er feitelijk gebeurt hier is dat de toeschouwers van Ajax en Feijenoord zichzelf identificeren met topspelers die bij de club horen van de stad waarin de toeschouwers wonen en/of waartoe ze zich het meest aangetrokken voelen als dichtstbijzijnde stad en club in de buurt. Vreemd is het niet? Heel vreemd. Want er wordt zelf geen enkele fysieke prestatie geleverd. Dat is ook niet nodig in die mate als dat de profvoetballers dit doen. Echter onszelf identificeren met een speler of met een stad – is dit niet om een ervaring van ‘winnen’ te genereren binnenin onszelf? Om ons een moment beter te voelen dan wie we zijn in ons dagelijks leven? Wetende dat we nooit zo’n topsalaris zullen ontvangen voor het werk dat we dagelijks verrichten, dat we nooit zoveel energetische aandacht zullen krijgen als dat er gericht wordt op de profvoetballers.

De profvoetballers leveren fysiek gezien, een heel aardige prestatie. Het is de kracht van het lichaam maximaal inzetten waar niet direct iets mis mee is. Echter, we missen de essentie die dit mogelijk maakt in iedere speler en die in ieder van ons aanwezig is, namelijk de essentie in en als leven, in en als wezenlijkheid, in en als een fysiek lichaam. We kunnen niet allemaal goed voetballen, dat hoeft ook niet. We kunnen de voetballers aanmoedigen, we kunnen hen als voorbeeld nemen voor hun inzet en discipline en dit vervolgens inzetten op een manier die bij ons eigen lichaam en wezen past. We kunnen er een leuke dag van maken waarin een ‘gezonde competitie’ aanwezig is om onszelf te blijven verbeteren in de fysieke prestaties, echter dan wel in samenwerking met en ondersteuning van elkaar en niet in rivaliteit.

Dit is slechts één levensgroot voorbeeld van wat een identiteit aanmeten inhoudt en kan aanrichten en hoever we hierin van onszelf verwijderd zijn. Dat we dit toestaan in de wereld, daar zijn geen woorden voor. En we vinden het heel gewoon. Feitelijk laten we ons hierin terroriseren door de geldstroom die ermee verbonden is en worden we afgeleid door de relschoppers die als toeschouwers betrokken zijn. Echter deze rellen zijn niet de grootste misdaad. Het is hoe de voetbalpolitiek is opgezet – en niet alleen de voetbalpolitiek maar politiek in het algemeen – waarin verandering dient te komen om deze misdaden te stoppen en de geldstroom te richten op ondersteuning van het leven dat in iedereen en overal aanwezig is.

Waar identificeer jij je mee? Het is een vraag om over na te denken. We identificeren ons allen dagelijks met iets of iemand, binnenin of buiten onszelf om onszelf dan wel minder, dan wel meer te voelen dan wie we fysiek werkelijk zijn op dat moment. En juist door deze ervaringen van meer en minder in en als de geest, ontkrachten we onszelf in en als wezenlijkheid, in en als ons fysiek.

Om dit te kunnen begrijpen van onszelf is het nodig dat we begrijpen hoe we als mens in elkaar zitten, hoe we gebouwd zijn, welke systemen hierin aanwezig zijn en wat onze eigen verantwoordelijkheid is hierin. Dit zijn zaken waar we tot nog toe geen duidelijkheid over hebben en hierin is het dus nodig deze wel te vinden.

Wat zijn gevoelens, wat zijn emoties, wat zijn gedachten, wat is de samenhang hiertussen en welke invloed hebben deze factoren eigenlijk op onszelf en ons fysieke lichaam? Dat zijn wezenlijke vragen die we onszelf kunnen stellen. Hetgeen we denken, voelen, ervaren, is dat wie we werkelijk zijn? Of zijn dit allerlei identiteiten die we onszelf hebben aangeleerd en aangemeten, waarmee we in conflict komen binnenin onszelf en die we vervolgens uitleven? En wat is de samenhang tussen deze persoonlijke identiteiten waarmee we in conflict komen en de wereld als maatschappij met alle conflicten en oorlogen als hoe die momenteel bestaat? Wezenlijke vragen.

Zoek jij wezenlijke antwoorden? Die zijn te vinden, met name in jezelf, met behulp van de juiste instrumenten om jezelf en de wereld om je heen te onderzoeken, aangevuld met informatie hoe we als mens zijn opgebouwd en hoe dit zo gekomen is.

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De Geschiedenis van de Mensheid Nederlands

History of Mankind  – playlist Engels

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www.desteni.org
De Kronieken van Jezus

Journey to Life – Reis naar Leven:
https://nl.gravatar.com/ingridschaefer1
7 jaar dagelijks schrijven – Dag 1 – Van ziel naar Leven
video: 2012: Nothingness – The 7 year process Birthing Self as Life
Ingrid’s Desteni Witness Blog
Facebook:
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Dag 611 – Cat Punching – How can we see it as a wake up call?

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#CatPunching is not an easy subject to discuss. With cat punching the abuse is so direct and clear, from a human against an animal that has no chance to get away from the physical, horrible pain of being punched on the head while being holded. Most of us humans are strongly reacting to this injustice. It has to stop.

Ofcourse it has to stop. Together with so much other abuse that takes places in this world. Abuse that we do not react to anymore. Which is quite strange actually. The hunger in many countries, the horrible conditions that animals are existing in for the meat-industry from which we buy daily in the supermarket, the wars, the killing in wars, child abuse, the destroyment of the earth; but also the small abusive moments that we accept and allow within our near relationships as manipulation, lying, gossiping, ignoring each other in the small needs and questions and so much more. It is uncountable, the abuse that we participate in on a daily base. And what most of us do not realize – because we have never been educated in this – is that within this emotional reacting inside ourselves,  activated by the pictures of the catpunching that we judge – here what happens is that we generate energy within our own mind and this generating energy is…….. a form of abuse in itself, towards our own physical body.

Everything is so integrated, suppressed and/or ignored in and as abuse towards this physical life that we do not even see what we are accepting and allowing within ourselves, within our own physical bodies and how this is interconnected to what happens outside here on earth. So we can say that we have a huge problem here in this world that needs to be changed, if we do want to stop this abuse FOR GOOD and all as for example the cat punching.

So in this light, we can see the catpunching as a wake up call. It is so direct and horrible that it is clear defined as abuse. But how does it come that the abuse in general exist on such a large scale in this world without us doing something about it? And if we do notice the abuse, then how is it possible that we are seeing ourselves as unable to stop the abuse in this world where from experiencing this emotion of disempowerment and injustice, we start reacting to it?

We need so many new or actually re-definitions of what we accept and allow and what not in this world. Because at the moment there is so much abuse existing – where we can describe abuse as ‘inequality’, meaning the reality of ‘having more than another who has bearly nothing’ and the believe that from having more, we ‘are of more value’ while such a large part of the population in this world, did not have a chance to make a difference with their lives because they are every day forced to fight for their lifes and for something to eat. With regards to the animals, they are not able to speak for themselves in a language that we as humen clearly understand and so again, because we do not hear them, we do not take care of them and because they do not have money, they cannot ‘buy’ their rights so to speak.

Did you ever had such a horrible picture coming up in your head when carrying a very vulnerable, small animal that is totally dependent on you and that can easily be breaked down and from here, there is this one second with a thought coming up – and from here quickly suppressed – that if you punch it there is nothing that the animal can do?

Isn’t it strange that this seconds/moments of thoughts and pictures are coming up within ourselves, even if in daily life we are a very carefull an gentle person? Where does this thought/picture come from? Why do we for example fear to be hitten, raped, robbed by another? Why are this pictures coming up? Because it happens in this world and we are grown up with stories, movies or even experiences where it did happen. However, we never go back to the source and ask ourselves WHY IT DOES HAPPEN AT ALL and why it is coming up in our head when we have never taken part in such situation.

We really have to go back to the source if we want to stop the abuse as inequality in this world. Of course the cat punching needs to stop. It is so obvious, one cannot ignore or deny this and there is no reason thinkable of why it should be allowed.

To stop the abuse on a large scale, we have to be willing to go back to the source and to see straight and direct into this source, because only if we see what the source is, we will be able to eventually change.

The source of abuse does exist from two major pilars that need to be investigated, forgiven and changed:

We as the human race

The moneysystem that we/the human race created and/or allowed to be created

And from here seeing the connection between these two pilars.

It’s cool to start to do something about an activity as cat punching and being motivated to stop this abusive behaviour. From here it is time to see further than our physical eyes will see at first and to take responsibility for what we have accepted and allowed in this world as abuse on a larger scale, within and without and from here – instead of abusing this physical existance ‘because we can’ – start taking responsibility as real care for this physical existence, including ourselves and our own physical body.

Why?

Because we can. Because it is the only solution. The human race is the only one wo can decide to make a real change in this world. If we are not willing to do so, we will destroy life and with doing so, we are destroying ourselves. So the cat punching is actually a horrible projection of how we as human beings, choose and/or have choosen to (accept and allow) abuse, within and without while we are often not aware of what we are doing and/or allowing as abuse and what is actually happening.

It’s up to each one of us to decide where we will stand.

We can keep on judging the abuse and/or blaming the ones who do so in a partcular situation, however judging or blaming is not making any difference, it is even enlarging the abusive behaviour because it is generating energy, as reaction within ourselves and as reaction within the abusers. Positive and negative energy are coming from the same source, it is nothing more but a polarity and for generating a positive or negative energy as experience in/as the mind within ourselves, we are ‘abusing’ our own physical bodies because we are using this physical substance to generate energy from which gives the positive or negative experience.  It is based on the same mechanism from where we are (ab)using the earth as the physical substance to ‘create’ money from.

One can say that this is an unbelievable scenario. But what if this is in fact the case and we have missed it all the time, only because we were holding onto our ‘believes’ and so not willing to really see and investigate the source?

What we tend to forget here, is that at one day, the physical substance is burned and consumed and there is nothing left. Unless we stop this abusive behaviour, within and without. This abusive behaviour within and without is what is really hurting ourselves and/as live in general from where we start reacting and judging in/as the mind. Because we do not really want to see and feel this pain that the abuse is bringing forward on a large scale and investigate how we all contribute(d) to this.

So first thing to do, is to stop judging, blaming and reacting and to start investigating the source from the abuse on earth, within and without and the possibilities to bring Equality for All Life Here.

I invite you to investigate:

Desteni I Process (individual process within – practical application inclusive a free Lite course)

Living Income Quaranteed (world process without – a proposal to investigate and contribute to)

History of Mankind (youtube – detailed background information beyond ‘belief’)

Eqafe (self-education in interviews, books and music)

Related articles:

410: Cat Punching Page Removed from Facebook… It Can’t Stop There:

(…) “What I find most interesting about this is, yes, of course, animal abuse is absolutely atrocious, and yes of course, it should in no way be glorified or accepted for that matter, and so such a page should be removed. But to me what is most interesting is that 20,000 people can rally together, and act as a group, using the collect will and force to inflict awareness and demand a change in relation toward a particular point, yet when it comes to things that happen daily, which includes animal abuse, in the Real World, our group efforts cease to exist.”(…)

Day 634 Cat Punching and a Cup-is-a-Cup:

(…) “Obviously, punishing the form is not the solution. Punching a cat is not the solution. It is no different than punching a cup. Punching the physical does nothing to change what has been informed. If we want to blame the system and punch parts of this physical world, nothing is being done to change  the limitations that created the frustration. The only way to correct is to reform what one is as information.”(…)

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http://www.facebook.com/groups/journeytolife/
video: 2012: Nothingness – The 7 year process Birthing Self as Life
De Desteni Boodschap – Wat doen we ermee?:
https://ingridschaefer1.wordpress.com/2013/02/13/dag-235-de-desteni-boodschap-wat-doen-we-ermee/