Dag 607 – The mind-body relationship – When will I succeed?

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Last week I was hosting a Google Hangout about the subject Breathing and The Body. Afterwards we noticed that it were actually two subjects that we discussed in one hangout that became longer than the time I planned to stay within. However for the rest we were all three (Maite, Martijn and I) satisfied about the content and discussions.

Before starting about the body, Maite suggested to keep an eye on how I placed the relationship between physical symptoms and walking process, to not put it as ‘walking process to solve physical problems/symptoms/complains’ but more focus on how the physical symptoms can function as a guide within who I am in relationship to myself and my physical body. Although this was also my starting-point towards this subject, I noticed that within one question, I mixed these two approaches a bit through each other where in I saw that unaware, I was still pushing the point of wanting to ‘solve my physical complains’ through walking process and actually, I want it NOW lol and this playing out each day again, waiting for this to happen.

One can imagine that this is giving pressure on myself and my physical body and within this, I noticed that I was waiting for myself to ‘succeed’ in this and if not, I would not yet allow to really stand for and share what I am walking in/as this process of self-realization, because as long as the physical complains are here and/or are coming back or even may come back, I did not really succeed and so, not allowed by myself to stand and share.

Here I do not take everything into consideration, I fear to do so because what if there are aspects and dimensions that make it impossible to completely ‘solve’ these physical complains during my life in/as the physical? Then I will never be able to ‘succeed’ so to speak. This is the problem with trying to reach a ‘good health’ as it is like a picture of a carriage with a donkey in front of it who is walking behind a carrot on a line, the carrot is holded right before it’s nose but as the donkey walks, the carrot goes foreward because it is carrying the carriage with the one who is holding the line and so, the donkey will not be able to eat the carrot. Or, walking in circles actually, the circles of consiousness. To clarify that animals are not walking behind a carrot but we as humans are doing so in/as the mind while sitting on the box of the carriage, holding the line with the carrot and this picture is a projection of our human mind as how we as humans are in/as the mind, directing life by how we are walking in circles and focus on the result that we project in/as the mind instead on focussing on who are are in/as life within the walking.

Here I notice that I fear to have to live with the physical complains from a spastic colon through all my live. And this fear I am projecting forward as an already created road for myself where in I keep myself prison in/as an experience of fear and so, in/as the mind. Which will enlarge the tension on the large intestine. In which I will enlarge the experience of not succeeding ever.

Theoretical it is not so difficult to grasp, however in the moment of finding myself within the uncomfortability of the spastic state and within this, an unability to release myself from the physical waste (poo), I am having the most difficulties with who I am in relation to myself and my physical body, It is also already an accumulated situation where in I was not aware yet of how I exactly build the tension in the days before, mixed with an accumulation build up throughout my whole life and foundated with some predisposition within the large intestine coming from the familiy-line. So it is quite an integrated and complex state that is physically manifested.

However, if I keep and place my focus on who I am within this process and physically manifested and integrated state, I empower myself to work with that part that I do have a direct influence on, namely who I am within and as myself, being and becoming aware of myself in participation in thoughts, feelings and emotions and from here, seeing how this is influencing myself and my physical body. Even that might be one step too far as this integrated relationship of mind-body-self is developed throughout time and so, several dimensions are active and/or already in an activated state at the same time through which it is still difficult to directly see how my mind-participation is of influence on this specific body-part. I do know that it is of influence but focussing on the finish is not of support for myself of that what I am able and need to walk in small steps in my daily life.

So here I find a sort of reset for walking process from what I have started to walk until now (which is about 3,5 -4 year). When we start walking process, we do not always know what we are stepping into and for me, I only saw and was clear that within the Desteni I Process I will be able to keep on walking with/as myself and others doing the same where in the mind-body relationship is considered. How exactly this will unfold will develop over time while walking and I notice it is more or less in the direction that I was already seeing at the start and at the same time, it is different than what I could comprehend and so much more encompassing as it is including everything. And this is what I did not have learned throughout my life, to include everything and everyone. This is what Life is doing, Life is including itself actually.

As long as I am excluding someone or something, within and/or without myself, I can be sure that I am not standing in oneness and equality in/as life. It is remarkable how something so ‘for the obvious’ can be so difficult to integrate within/as myself to really live and apply and it is even more remarkable how I and we as human beings have let it come this far, to this state of separation within and without.

There is no other solution than to walk it back and learn to understand, forgive and correct that what I have accepted and allowed, within and without myself and while doing so, stop the separation from myself as life. It is not only ‘me fixing my physical complains’ as it is an interconnected process that is including all and everything that exists. Which is starting at home, in my daily life. Where in it seems as if there are more important things to do than learning to communicate with the one’s living nearby. And so it is easy to let myself and my focus be distracted to ‘something bigger outside myself’ in which I unable myself to do anything. But I am able to something in my nearby environment and relationships. Everyday a bit. So that is where I start and move on. Actually I need to go even more inside, into the relationship with myself with and within my physical body as here, the whole universe is actually playing out, as so within so without. The without as a reflection from the within.

To be continued.

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This blog does in no way contain a medical advise. With unclarity about a condition – physically or mentally – always contact a practioner/specialist/doctor in the related area to get the support you need and from here, see how you can additionally walk your own process to get to know and support yourself in relation to your own body and mind.

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Dag 592 – The mind-body relationship – Sensitivity of the body to thoughts

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I was listening to an interview of Quantum Mind Systemization nr 81 – What your thoughts do when you are unwell. Here in I started realizing how I was in a way, still working from the starting-point as if my body was, or should be in very well condition. And I see how I approached my body like this the last 20-25 years, where in I struggled with several physical conditions that had become chronicle. It are not life-threathning conditions, it is a spastic colon and for a year of 10, I have had/walked through the condition of having chronic injuries and from here, weakness to the tendens of the shoulder muscles. So let’s say, it was in my thirties where it was at worst and at the end of my thirties, I started to find solutions to support myself effectively, every time a bit more. Here in I see an interesting corrolation with fertility, where many of my friends during that time, started to build a family and got children where I could not find my way in this and I was not able to really be self-honest towards this point. This is a subject on itself to write out where interestly, the period that is within the eyes of fertility ‘the best’, I felt physically and mentally/emotionally worst, where I did not walk the general road of starting a family and having children.

I have noticed while walking through this rough physical times, that I needed a lot of quietness and rhythm around me to be able to keep myself on my feet and function in a way to sustain myself financially. This means for example that I was working 3 days and the rest of the days, I needed to stabilize myself and I  was not able to do so much more than being around the house – which supported me immensely as I lived in a very cool nature-environment – and taking care of the house and myself. I was sitting on the couche for hours in the morning, reading a book. I had days where I was ill while I was not working, as a reaction to several natural treatments that I had choosen to support my physical body where for example, a detox reaction took place. I did not make very much appointments as I was never sure if I could be present. So I only made some appointments ‘under conditions’ with some people who were aware of my situation and/or were goig through a similar process and so, there was mutual understanding.

Last few years I am really doing better and I have done more than I imagined for myself for a long time. Within this, I started to ‘forget’ that my body had gone through a rough time of chronicle weaknesses and so, it had became sensitive, more than ‘a normal physical body’ is. This is the point in the interview that gave me clarity about this sensitivity. Of course I have noticed this sensitivity already for a long period over years and I have adapted my way of living to it when needed, however I was never really clear about what it exactly contained. Was I a ‘sensitive being’ as how so much is described, let’s say last ten years? Maybe in several aspects (with a side-note that actually any physical being is sensitive in a way). However I could not completely recognice myself within this ‘picture’ as how it is portrayed. I also did not want to limit myself within a definition of my physical conditions within a mind-statement as ‘this is how it is’. I have learned within my study of natural medicine to treat the being/body that can have several conditions and symptoms, because it is out of balance and the conditions are named, however the names are not used to define the being within this condition.

Here I was actually confused of how to approach myself within the situation of chronicle physical conditions and how to take the sensitivity serious, without ‘conditioning’ myself to and as the physical conditions.

In the interview it is mentioned how after a long period of chronic diseases – a condition of being not at ease within my own physical body  as how I see a dis-ease – the physical body becomes more sensitive towards the mind and towards thought-patterns. This explains to me why, in the worst period/years of being not at ease with and as myself, within my own physical body, I could not ‘bare’ any rumour or changes around me. I simply reacted to everything that I was not able to direct and because I did not yet learn how to direct myself in and as reaction, the best and only thing that I could do was keeping my environment as quiet and stable as possible, which easily leads to isolation, as how the mind is actually ‘longing for’, to keep itself alive in this self-created prison.

I have been able to take care of my job where in I was/am lucky that I am working in a supportive work-environment and the other thing that supported me the most to not get isolated was the nature and the animals around me while livig in a very nice house. I have learned to keep my work and house-environment stable as how I have grow up in this and this have been my pilars to keep standing on. Where in it shows how this should be the pilars for every one, to keep ourself stable in and as and from here, learn to expand in an individual process with the ability to self-introspection.

Back to nowadays and the interview that I listened to. After a physical treatment at the beginning of this week with a chiropractor, I became very tired, which I actually already was aware of for some longer time. Last year has been filled with challenges and changes which are going well, however on the end of this ‘rumouring’ period, I noticed that it had an effect on my physical body as within these changes, there were many emotional reactions and thought-patterns triggered. And I need to stabilize myself again, now in more detail within self-responsibility for what is coming up within myself as reactions and thoughts. I am already stabilizing more and more within the emotional reactions and bringing it back to self, which has a stabilizing influence on the whole living situation. From here it is time to be more attentive to the small and subtile thought-patterns that I participate in, especially in relation to the physical condition of a spastic/sensitive colon and the pattern of the stool.

In the interview it is suggested to for a month, support oneself by stopping the participation in the thoughts and walk in real time the self-forgiveness application. Also it is suggested to every night reflect on the day, see what changes there are in the physical body and what thoughts are standing out to stop participating in. Not so much to ‘heal’ the body by this application, but more to give space to the body to release itself from the mind-influences that are interacting with the phyisical functions that are required to stabilize itself as much as possible. When the body is everytime interfeared with me participatig in and as my mind without directing this, it cannot do it’s functions proparly because of this sensitivity towards the mind and thoughts and emotions within.

Through these days, I can see if there are any changes happening as for example, being less tired and more stable over a longer period of time. I have already noticed that I am able to be less tired and more stable within a busy period and so has been my physical body for even months during last year and now I see it as bringing this stability to some ‘deeper’ level within me.

The interviews are of great support to ‘fill in’ the gaps that I am not able to see by/in and as myself and to make sense of what I am not totally understanding.

This within the understanding that: we are not able to walk this process ‘alone’ as there is information missing that we are simply not (yet) able to see and fill in for ourselves, as this is how the mind is set up and how the mind is interfearing. We need to be sure about certain things without any doubt and the interviews are giving a lot of information that is giving this certainty of how the mind is set up and within this, the practical guidelines of how to support oneself within and through. We first need to see who we are in/as the mind and who we are in/as ourselves in self-honesty and from here we will be able to see more and more ‘interdimensionly’ as in all the dimensions that are involved. The interviews are giving this interdimensional information so that we are able to support ourselves, within the dimensions that we do not yet see by/as ourselves. This doing so while walking together as a group, we will have the answers and cross-reference to be sure that the outcome is and will be best for all.

No one is excluded of this ‘group’ as it is a group that supports life, in and as everyone and everything.

So yesterday, the one months started of this introspection process related to the sensitivity of the body to thoughts.

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Dag 590 – The mind-body relationship – Self-limitation

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Since a few weeks I am looking into a decision to start a project at work where some coaching of a student is involved, this on request of a young student. It is new so it takes some time to investigate all the possibilities and official requirements. After considering and discussing the possibilities, I still tend to not step in, I have reasons for this and the reasons are subscribed within the conversations with colleques. However, the student does not agree with this stand and actually, when I look deep into myself, I also do not agree with myself on this stand. So I hesitate but still round it off in conversations, however within my head, it is not round off, no matter how much reasonable subscriptions I find within myself.

I recognize this pattern because I have written/am still writing a whole mind-construct about this pattern of ‘subscribing my decisions with reasons and justifications’ and walking the correction on paper and in real time (related to a different subject). So after the final conversation to round it off, I sink within myself and feel very shitty about the situation. The decision that I have made, is not best for everyone and so, also not best for me. It hurts. I hurt myself in this (and perhaps I have hurted another, however that is not to me to conclude). What I do know and experience is that I hurt myself. Not in an emotional way, but in a way of seeing that my decision and action is limiting myself in my expansion and from here, I can be sure it is of influence and limitation on another in their expansion.

To correct this, I have to make phonecalls, first to get some more information and second to discuss if I can reconsider my decision. Within this, I have to admit that I hesitate and that I was not sure about myself in/as my decision and I have to show this to the ones that I call. Here in is the risk that they do not ‘take me serious anymore’ because I hesitate too much, however then the door will yet close. This is not the case. The one who has to make some official arrangements is willing to re-open the case and after this, the situation will be fast arranged. He asks for my motivation, I describe this the best I can and he agrees with me. And that is that.

Here I go immediately to living the correction because I have walked the writing and self-forgiveness of this construct already extensively as I mentioned in writing out a whole mind-construct with the support of a buddy and I basicely/already see the mind-construct playing out within myself in/as the mind; I have taken the time to investigate and discussed the possibilities within this current situation, I have first established a stable situation at work during the last weeks and I have seen within myself that I am able to direct this situation and to (learn to) apply some coaching activities together with a collegue who is also willing to do so.

My physical experiences in this whole event are as follows:

When I finally ‘round off’ in a way where in I did not consider for everyone what is best, I started to sink more and more in my body towards an experience of paralysing. I notice that it is a state that I did not enter for quite some time, which is an indication for me that lately I am pretty much moving myself in agreement with myself in consideration of all members as what is best (which I can check within myself by seeing if I apply that which I am able to at my utmost potential for this moment/in the stage where I am). I directly notice again how limiting it is to not do so and how within not moving myself as what is best, is influencing myself in every area of my life. Because if I am not standing in and as this starting-point of considering all living beings involved and applying that what I am able to, then who am I to ask such a thing from another. And here, I will allow myself to hold back, because otherwise I would not live what I speak. I cannot speak/ask to do what is best/what one is able to and not do it myself. So basicely I bring down myself in every aspect of what I actually decide to stand for and as and within this, feeling unworthy to speak up.

From here I become emotional and easily ‘swept away’. I become depressed and feel the pressure of the emotions around the heart-area which influences the left-upper corner of the large intestine, in the area of the spleen and heart. (In the iridology there is a line that they call the ‘splean-heart line’ where in the relation between the spleen/digestion and heart is noticed as of influence on each other). A deep cry comes out of my chest-area and then it becomes more quite inside myself and I decide to place the correction in and as a living action.

After correcting myself in the living action and actually already after making this decision to do so, the depression and paralysing immediately start decreasing and after a while, I notice some warmth and better circulation around the heart-area in a way that I did not have before. This area always feels ‘harmed’ and constricted and now there is coming some warmth in it which feels physically great, as a release. I did not specificely know/see how it was related to this self-limitation of not doing what is best and how not doing what is best, actually is the self-limitation in Itself.

Why did I not do this immediately? Because of fear of not being able to direct the situation; out of fear to take the lead as responsibility for and as this situation and out of fear of it all ‘being too much’ for me together with other responsibilities and fear to physically collaps within this.

I noticed from the beginning that I am the ‘decisioning-factor’ in this, and that I hold and determine the outcome and the direction is my responsibility within the situation that I bring this new element into; I cannot allow to influence this ‘new element’ in a so to speak ‘negative’ way within and as the situation that I work in within the system. So, I have to stand in and as self-trust, meaning enough trust to direct the situation, otherwise it doesn’t make sense to make a decision purely based on knowledge and information ‘as what is best’, as this holds the risk of over-estimating myself which in the end, is not best for all involved but more a ‘risk’ to everyone involved, including myself and the working-area.

It seems such a small example which is of influence on one being and we easily ‘sweep away’ the importance of this influence with reasons and justifications in/as the mind. However, every one needs someone who is reaching out and making some arrangements possible, to learn and expand oneself in. It is not so easy these days to make a living in the system, to find a place to develop oneself. This is the main motivation for me to step in, because what I have seen is that if I am not doing this, this opportunity will close off, for both of us. That doesn’t mean that the life of another and/or myself is dependent on only my/this decision as we all have our own self-responsibility and ability to forgive and correct ourselves and make decisions again and other doors will open, however this one opportunity is here.

There is still a better warming circulation in the left-area which moves on to my left-shoulder and left-arm. The situation has to be directed from now after receiving a respons from the student.

Within this I have to mention that I have some physical support from a ‘remedy’ that is alligned with the current state of my body that is coming from a bio-resonance consult that (together with other symptoms) showed how the heart-area was affected in it’s circulation. This alligned remedy is bringing my body-functions into a state of rebalancing and movement where in it can recorrect itself, so my body in itself is of support at the moment. However I have to see, investigate, forgive, correct and change the mind-constructs in real time, to establish a correction that is lasting for and as myself, in and as my physical body.

The mind-body relationship – Timeline

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Disclaimer:

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Dag 589 – The mind-body relationship – The pain of allowance, within and without

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Yesterday evening around 10 pm, a cramping pain came up in the large intestine at the height of the right ovarium. This is a place where from time to time, I experience cramping. It is a cramping that asks all my attention and I need to sit down and look what is going on where the sitting gives some physical support on my lower back (which is comfortable, especially because I am also having my period). In the hours before there did not so much happen, I had written out a time-line within my DIP Pro lesson and I did not experience a particulair emotion. So I started to look back through the day to see if I could find anything related. I do this by focussing on the pain and ‘scroll’ within myself through moments during the day that stood out for me. I also from time to time, lay down on the ground or on the bed and push firm and gentle on the painfull spot to see what emotion is stored here, especially when it is coming up in the morning and I often find it related to ‘sentences’ as assumptions with related emotions that I have stored in the past without being aware of it and/or without willing to be aware of it.

However yesterday night I started with scrolling through the past day. I entered a moment, looked into possible reactions/emotions within myself and see if there is any movement within the specific/painfull area. I entered a conversation that I had with a woman at work that made an impression on me. The woman had been in the store once before for some physical support and she came back for some new products and told me that what we had discussed and that what she took home, was giving the support that was required. She told me that she wanted to ask me a question and that I could decide to answer or not answer. Her question was how many males and females talks to me about sexual abuse and how much this subject is, from my perspective, ‘in the open’ so to speak. She shared that she was writing a book about the subject of sexual abuse and she mentioned some numbers that were very high and that The Netherlands is one of the countries where it takes place very often. She mentioned how investigations gave numbers of relations between for example intestine-problems and sexual abuse and between crimes and sexual abuse, meaning that from 70% of the intestine-problems and from the crimes that took place, there was sexual abuse involved where in females tend to manifest this more intern (physical) as problems and where males tend to manifest it more extern as problems as ‘crimes’.

I was deeply touched by what she mentioned, also in relation to the amount of males that are subject of sexual abuse, used as a way to control, for example in war-area’s and how they rarely speak about it because ‘they should be the ones that are protecting the family’.

A few months ago, I noticed a similar physical reaction within myself, related to facing the abuse in the world in/as a ‘wake-up moment’ and suppressing my reaction on this as supressing/hiding the reaction of pain for what is happening in this physical world and I experience this suppression as cramping inside the lower area’s of the large intestine where I can hardly stand anymore, I need to sit or lay down and support myself to release the pain.

This previous event was related to animal-abuse and happened while I was listening/realising how the chickens that everyone is eating on a daily base, are treatened and prepared. As soon as I allow myself to face the abuse in the world and allow myself to experience the related emotional pain, the physical pain releases. Actually in this moment, I stop the separation here within and as myself – the separation from my emotional reaction on the abuse in and as this world – and as soon as I stop suppressing my emotional reaction and instead, start taking responsibility for my reaction in and as the application/living of self-forgiveness, I stop the abuse on myself/my physical body. This was also yesterday evening. I look, I see, I allow myself to experience the emotional pain and if necessary, speak out self-forgiveness until it is releasing and/or to find where the pain is related to.

There was also a personal aspect related to the mentioning of the relationship between sexual abuse and intestine-problems. It was a realization inside myself as ‘you see, it is indeed related’. In my life, there has not been taken place some actual physical sexual abuse, however at a young age there were incidents from sexual intimidation within for my experience an ‘innocent relationship’, where the incidents have been of great influence on my behaviour and general expression. It was all so very subtile that it is easily to be surpressed and ‘swept’ away as ‘of not so much importance’ and at the same time I am/was every moment aware of the influence that I allowed it to have on me, in almost every aspect of myself. Lately I am facing more of the incidents/events as memories and within this seeing how and where to take responsibility for myself in it and stop defining myself as how I reacted within this events which I developped into a personality.

The realization gave a release of the guilt that I experienced with regards to my physical conditions as having a sensitive digestion and spastic colon, as if ‘everything was my own fault’ in this. It is not ‘my fault’ but it is indeed and only my responsibility to take care of myself within this condition as my physical body that I live in. I am the only one who is responsible for myself and/as my mind in and as my physical body, as I am the only one who can see how I created all the relationships within and as myself, from and as memories as events during my life and although there is DNA involved and preprogramming, it is still the mind that I allowed to evolve in and as myself and the body that I live in and that is my responsibility; only I live day and night with and as myself, in and as my physical body that I can call ‘mine’ in a way, so it is my responsibility to take care of, in and as myself (where we should take into consideration how everyone and everything is of influence on each other in this physical existance and how easily this physical existance can be harmed).

There are many dimensions involved here where in the suppression of emotional reactions do have an influence on my physical body, that I have allowed myself many times throughout my live, if I take in consideration the condition of a the spastic colon that I have allowed/created to exist in and as myself. Central in this, is the acceptance and allowance of the emotional reactions as self-abuse, as reactions on abuse that is happening ‘to me’ and/or that is happening in this world and from here, suppressing it within my physical body where I try to separate myself from the experiences that gives and showes the pain and abuse. Which is actually a form of denial. Because, “Once you’ve Allowed Abuse, you’ll become Abuser”.

(Source: Interviews from the Farm 60: Candida and Self abuse)

The pain and abuse that we accept and allow within this existence, we can not deny and hide from it; it is here within ourselves, within and as our physical bodies.

Accept and Allow – Contract with Death: Day 22

Accepteren en Toestaan – Het Contract met de Dood: Dag 22 (vertaling)

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The mind-body relationship – Timeline

Disclaimer:

This blog does in no way contain a medical advise. With unclarity about a condition – physically or mentally – always contact a practioner/specialist/doctor in the related area to get the support you need and from here, see how you can additionally walk your own process to get to know and support yourself in relation to your own body and mind.

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Proces van zelfverandering:

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Journey to Life:
7 jaar dagelijks schrijven
7 jaar dagelijks schrijven – Dag 1 – Van ziel naar Leven
http://www.facebook.com/groups/journeytolife/
video: 2012: Nothingness – The 7 year process Birthing Self as Life
De Desteni Boodschap – Wat doen we ermee?:
https://ingridschaefer1.wordpress.com/2013/02/13/dag-235-de-desteni-boodschap-wat-doen-we-ermee/
Zelfvergeving als Toegift aan jeZelf:
https://ingridschaefer1.wordpress.com/2013/05/20/dag-299-zelfvergeving-als-toegift-aan-jezelf/

Dag 583 – The mind-body relationship – Introduction

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Here I will start writing more in detail about the relationship between the mind and body as how I have walked this thus far and as a support for myself to start walking this more in detail. I have walked quite an extensive path with regards to physical conditions, especially located within the intestines and diagnosed as spastic colon. Within this I have supported myself with several specialised treatments and diagnoses, from alternative diagnoses to the regular investigations as for example an endosopie in the hospital. There were no remarkable signs in the endoscopie, except the cramping of the intestine as how is well-known as the condition of a spastic colon. I have done all these investigations to make sure there was nothing more serious going on that I would need to change my approach on, as for example alarming changes within the mucous membrane of the intestine that I could not support myself in. This was not so in fact, however I had already walked a path with an orthomoleculair therapist to strengthen the mucous membrane of the large intestine that was quite needed. Within walking this path with the support of several alternative medical treatments and diagnoses, as well as the regular medical check-ups, I have developped an awareness of my body within knowing when I have to ask for support and when I am able to support myself. This with the side-note that I have studied natural medicine for 6 years and from here, working in the area of the natural medicine/food-supplements for more then 10 years where in I have everything ‘by hand’ so to speak to support myself as much as I can.

I have come now to the point of needing to look more in detail how I created and how I create the internal irritations and how I disturb my own physical body within the relationship of myself, the mind and the body as how I have created this relationship in a way that is not best for myself and the body (and so not best for all), but more based on survival technics in/as the mind. In the mean time I always keep an eye on myself and my body and use the support of some natural treatments and diagnose-methods to keep on supporting myself to walk this path more in detail and to get these patterns out of my body, more to the surface so that I can face myself within and from here, support myself with the tools of writing and sounding of self-forgiveness and self-corrective application.

The writings will be in English, the vlogs I will continue doing in Dutch as how I started on the new YouTube-channel ‘mijn Lijf mijn Leven’ where until now, I mostly described some alternative treatments that are available in The Netherlands that I have experience with and I will expand on this in allignment with the blogs that I will write here more in detail about the mind-body relationship. I will keep on doing these vlogs in Dutch as I am well-known with what is available in The Netherlands and less with what is available in other countries. However the mind-body-relationship is not bound to the availability of the treatments and it is applyable for everyone who is willing to see into self and to support self and the body in relation to the mind. The treatments can be additional investigated within the allignment of what is available in the country that one lives in.

It will be a discovery or ‘uncovery’ for myself as well to walk the detail of the mind-body relationship within and as myself and also I do not know who I will be without being restricted in this limited relationship that I have created for and as myself. I will start and continue walking and my purpose is to take responsibility for and as myself in whatever I uncover within the mind-body relationship within and as myself, within the application of self-forgiveness and self-corrections, as this is the most humble and at the same time, the most powerfull application that I have seen and applied that is lasting and stable. To embrace myself in who I have become, to the betterment of the relationship with and as myself, my body and mind and from here, with others and the world around me, so that I can be and become a humble and considering human being who cares for and as life.

My deep appreciation for being here, for reading, sharing and walking together alone.

The mind-body relationship – Timeline

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From Responding / Reacting to the Mind – to Response-ability / Direction in Reality: DAY 477

Disclaimer:

This blog does in no way contain a medical advise. With unclarity about a condition – physically or mentally – always contact a practioner/specialist/doctor in the related area to get the support you need and from here, see how you can additionally walk your own process to get to know and support yourself in relation to your own body and mind.

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Mogelijkheid tot wereldverandering met gelijke kansen voor ieder-een:
Leefbaar Inkomen Gegarandeerd:
https://www.facebook.com/BasisinkomenGegarandeerdDoorEqualLifeFoundation
Equal Life Foundation:
https://www.facebook.com/EqualLifeFoundation
Proces van zelfverandering:

www.desteniiprocess.com
www.lite.desteniiprocess.com  GRATIS ONLINE CURSUS MET BUDDY
Proces van relatie naar agreement:
www.desteniiprocess.com/courses/relationships
Zelfeducatie free:
www.eqafe.com/free
www.desteni.net
www.desteni.org
Journey to Life:
7 jaar dagelijks schrijven
7 jaar dagelijks schrijven – Dag 1 – Van ziel naar Leven
http://www.facebook.com/groups/journeytolife/
video: 2012: Nothingness – The 7 year process Birthing Self as Life
De Desteni Boodschap – Wat doen we ermee?:
https://ingridschaefer1.wordpress.com/2013/02/13/dag-235-de-desteni-boodschap-wat-doen-we-ermee/
Zelfvergeving als Toegift aan jeZelf:
https://ingridschaefer1.wordpress.com/2013/05/20/dag-299-zelfvergeving-als-toegift-aan-jezelf/